Help, how to make my hubby celebrate my birthday?

wow! im sorry you are going through this, i could not imagine living my life with someone who does not think the day i was brought in to this world is special. I would tell him, stop hiding your feelings, he is not a mind reader. If this doesn't work take him to counseling, if he refuses to go, then you have a choice to make. Live your life they way you are, feeling like your not special, or find someone who knows how special you are and wants to make sure you know it. Good luck